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    October 25

    来自前辈的教诲

    很中肯也很让人宽心的一席话。
     
    至于找工作,我觉得不要太焦虑,第一份工作不是一锤子的买卖。最近两年的形势确实是比较严峻,所以更加不需要紧张了。我本科同学有些工作已经过了5年了,大家的想法变化很大,当初觉得找得很好的,发现发展状况并不像当初想象的那样,有好多都在发愁怎么转型;而有些当初被我们暗地鄙视的慢热型选手,现在反而开始有些苗头了,工作上出现了一种得心应手的感觉。我们本科一群朋友前不久聚会,都在感叹,好多事情都是不断变化的,不管是外在的世界、还是内在的心理,现在和5、6年前相比,真是此一时彼一时。
     
    所以我觉得,找第一份工作的时候,放松一点,总归会找到的,好和不好没有什么绝对。对于自己的个人素质,不要有疑问。所以,看得长久一点,放松一点,给自己一点时间,呵呵。
     
    哎,我也不会做什么思想工作,就是作为一个过来人,随便说几句。找工作时段的焦虑我经历过,很难避免,而且别人的劝解往往会被认为是“站着说话不腰疼”,呵呵,很正常。或许也是一个成长的必经之路吧。不过我希望你快点熬过去,尽量对自己宽容一些。
     

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    linton Davidwrote:
    呵呵,开始找工作了,真快啊,让我想起了以前,相信你的实力和心态,一定能找到自己喜欢的工作
    Nov. 8
    鸿wrote:
    说的好哈,我身边很多人正在经历这种心境,尤其加上美国失业率逼近10%和身份问题。是不能太焦虑,同时也要积极面对。要找到适合自己的职位,然后好好干。相信自己是王道,无论在什么情况下都最重要。
    Nov. 3
    Cellowrote:
    很有同感。其实我现在觉得吧,不仅是对找工作,包括其他任何事情,结婚生子,跳槽升迁,等等等,都应该放慢脚步,多给自己一些时间,慢慢就豁然开朗了。不是好像有本书叫什么身体使用手册么,强迫自己很有效率,真是自我摧残。
    Nov. 2
    Jieren Huwrote:
    Wish you good luck later!
    Oct. 30
    Jieren Huwrote:
    It will be very tired and unhappy during this process
    Oct. 30
    福 喜wrote:
    时间好快 要毕业啦?
    Oct. 28
    麦7wrote:
    说的很有道理,对我们来说,工作终究会有的,有没有跟对人,会不会有好的发展,除了个人的努力,多半看运气了。
    Oct. 25

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